Sex & Death illustration by Frank Barbara

Issue 3 is the product of months of work by dozens of people. It is 60 pages, 8.5x11, perfect bound, offset printed on FSC-certified paper. It includes 28 original illustrations, 18 true stories, one interview, and a full-page spread of 36 lips. It includes the phrases: opposed to cunnilingus, atrocity before dinner, sticky wetness on my palm, volcano of inappropriateness, and zipping up the darkness. Buy it now.

Video by Kevin Meredith

Contents

Sunglasses Man
Story by Lindsay Champion
Illustration by Andrew Wilson
Sucks To Be a Straight Guy
Dan Savage on Sex, Drugs, and Santorum
Interview by Jesse Thorn
Illustration by Ramsey Sibaja
Braces
Story by Daniel McDermott
Illustration by Chad Essley
Seeds of Love
Story by John Halcyon Styn
Illustration by Chris Bishop
Five Rules for Living
Story by J. Tarin Towers
The Letters Project
Both Sides of the World’s Oldest Profession
By Susannah Breslin
Illustrations by Jim Unwin
Of Silence and Oranges
Story by William Hastings.
Illustration by Ray Frenden
Fucking Death
Story by Derek Powazek
Illustration by Ana Benaroya
Dead Sexy
36 Playboy Bunnies’ Last Centerfold
By Jennifer Daniel
The Opened Hand
Story by Ed Wolf
Illustration by Jim Unwin
A Day in the Life of a Killer
Story by Xep Levy
Illustration by Paul O’Sullivan
Orphans
By Steve Silberman
Coffin Cornered
Story by Jack Boulware
Illustration by Rex Crowle
A Death of Coincidence
Story by Eric Meyer
Illustrations by Brooke Nuñez Fetissoff
What We Talk About When We’re Trying Not To Talk About Death
Story by Eric Spitznagel
Illustration by Stefan Grambart
Diary of the Dead
Story by Carolyn Sortor
Illustration by Mal Jones
Once Around the Corpse
Story by Jarret Liotta
Illustration by Andrew Fulton
Nest
Story by Emily Morris
Illustration by Claire Robertson

Introduction

I’d long considered doing a sex-themed issue of Fray, but I was worried that it would end up sounding like an alternate-reality version of Penthouse Letters. Dear Fray, I never thought it would happen to me, but...

I’d also always wanted to do a death-themed issue, but how could we do it in a way that didn’t make the reader want to slit their wrists? By the time I got to these questions, I’d moved on to other theme ideas.

Still, the themes haunted me. Can you think of two subjects we spend more time thinking about, but discuss less? Sex motivates us in ways almost nothing else does – ask any teenage boy why he started playing the guitar. And death lurks in every conversation about age, health, or the future. The fear of it drives the jogger out at 5am and the smoker standing outside in the rain. Run from it or toward it, death is always there.

Something interesting happened when we put the two themes together. At first, the pairing seemed like a simple combination of opposites, but sex and death have a deeper connection. A part of each inhabits the other. That’s why the French called orgasm la petite mort – the little death.

In assembling this issue, I found that death stories are not always sad. At their best, death stories celebrate life. And while sex stories can be funny, they can also be serious. It’s these surprising turnabouts we focused on in this issue.

I also naïvely thought that there would be a hard line between the two themes, but it ended up a spectrum. It turned out that even I had a story that dealt with both. So we’ve structured the issue with the sex stories in front, the death stories in back, and the stories that blur the line nestled in the middle.

As usual in Fray, all the stories here are true. But this issue is special in how close to the core all these stories are. I want to thank our contributors for sharing them with us, and proving my worries wrong. These are some of the most intimate stories we’ve ever published.

I hope this issue helps you see your stories as part of a larger context. Whether tragedy or comedy, sex or death, true stories remind us to enjoy life for all its sharp corners.

Credits

Derek Powazek
Frayer-in-chief
Magdalen Powers
Managing Editor
Chris Bishop
Illustration Editor
Heather Champ
Fulfillment
Frank Barbara
Cover illustration
James Goode
Web menagerie
Contributors
Adam Kidder, Ana Benaroya, Andrew Fulton, Andrew Wilson, Brooke Nuñez Fetissoff, Carolyn Sortor, Chad Essley, Claire Roberston, Daniel McDermott, Derek Chatwood, Devin McGrath, Ed Wolf, Edward Chow, Emily Morris, Eric Meyer, Eric Spitznagel, Frank Barbara, Goopymart, J. Tarin Towers, Jack Boulware, Jarret Liotta, Jennifer Daniel, Jesse Thorn, Jim Unwin, John Halcyon Styn, Lindsay Champion, Mal Jones, Miguel Cervantes, Paul O’Sullivan, Ramsey Sibaja, Ray Frenden, Rex Crowle, Stefan Grambart, Steve Silberman, Susannah Breslin, William Hastings, Xep Levy.
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